tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post112909575687833098..comments2023-08-25T01:54:06.116-07:00Comments on Dreamweaver: Heaven's Gate...Rhiannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04533771985725095499noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129946576261867012005-10-21T19:02:00.000-07:002005-10-21T19:02:00.000-07:00Dear Rhiannon,People appreciate you for who you ar...Dear Rhiannon,<BR/><BR/>People appreciate you for who you are.<BR/>Your courage in sharing<BR/>Your soft touch in writing.<BR/>Your talent in many little things.<BR/><BR/>You stand out,<BR/>With your heart so kind,<BR/>With your will so strong,<BR/>Yes, you are a survivor.<BR/><BR/>Take care.<BR/>Blessings to you.Dreaming_Fireflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00872917409184543914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129363903865803012005-10-15T01:11:00.000-07:002005-10-15T01:11:00.000-07:00Longiron, thank you so much for you caring and tho...Longiron, thank you so much for you caring and thoughtful ways..it means a lot to me, more then you will know.<BR/><BR/>Blessings to you,<BR/>RhiannonRhiannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04533771985725095499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129363819211300492005-10-15T01:10:00.000-07:002005-10-15T01:10:00.000-07:00Welcome Princessfiona, am happy to have you drop b...Welcome Princessfiona, am happy to have you drop by. Yes I loved that Alley McBeal post you had. As a matter of fact I wrote it all down (my printer isn't working now) and was thinking of posting it with your permission of course. That post struck me in a personal way I connected to, as I think I mentioned to you.<BR/><BR/>Thank you for your understanding comment. Being independent, alone and on your own at 24 in the state of this world is not easy. I commend and respect you for it. I lived on my own at age 24 but those were years gone by and life was much less hard and complicated and less expensive then. Its not easy is it? I can relate. Yes, we can have many "acquaintances" that come and go in our lives, but I feel better just having a few very close friends, and that we are not only willing, but wanting to take the time to spend with one another, for its worth it. I don't see this very much and wish it would happen more often for more people in this life. Friendship Connections are very important, especially with the state of the world now.<BR/><BR/>You hang in there and I will see you on the other side of the blog world..Please drop by soon again.<BR/><BR/>Angel Blessing to you,<BR/>Rhiannon<BR/><BR/>Thank you sister celtic! Yes, your right "little adults" thats what we were for sure! We were their "little slaves" and we worked hard through our whole childhood. I was mowing lawns and helping my dad work on his car at age 4 or 5. I hated it but he watched and gave "instructions". I would get oil under the car on my face a lot changing the oil for him,etc..I now hate to this day to ever work on anything to do with cars. The neighborhood kids would make fun of us and ask why our parents treated us like slaves.<BR/><BR/>Im so glad your reunion worked out so great for you and your cousin. I hope Mary is doing much better.<BR/><BR/>Talk to you soon,<BR/>Angel Blessings,<BR/>Rhi <BR/><BR/>Carolyn, thanks so much for your understanding and you do seem to understand I can tell. I was married twice also, first time 8 years and he wanted kids bad, so there were difficult situations and I seemed to have done all the "work" on that to no avail. My second husband, who was the love of my life(my soulmate) for about 16 years it didn't matter to him, about kids or not, we just loved each other so much and our relationship was most important thing which I have many many happy memories of, yet it ended so tragically and so very hurtful. <BR/><BR/>Yes, not having kids "many" women throughout my life have "passed me by" because I didn't..and also being a single woman on my own now I kind of stick out like a sore thumb in neighborhoods where I have lived. In regards to being childless,they also can make the most shallow hurtful comments making many "assumptions" sometimes it would get rather embarassing or humiliating as people just don't know when to stop the constant "inquiring minds want to know". I think though my family was the most hurtful in the past. They were so "disappointed" in their daughter(me) who was the first one married did not give them a "grandchild" and thats all they seemed to care about not what I went through to try. But they got their grandkids when my other sisters got married. I so miss not having a relationship with my nephews and neices I think they would like me a lot but they have been told so much "crap" through the years they probably don't know what to think about me. Maybe one day I may get to see them, as they are adults now maybe they might chose to want to meet their aunt one day!<BR/><BR/>Am glad you have got your "little" family" and are happy..don't lose that hang onto it!<BR/><BR/>Dear kindred spirit, blessings upon you,<BR/>RhiannonRhiannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04533771985725095499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129248740762773442005-10-13T17:12:00.000-07:002005-10-13T17:12:00.000-07:00Rhiannon, your poem-- I could have written it to m...Rhiannon, your poem-- I could have written it to my own mother, it is so much describes my feelings. She "locked" me out of her life years ago for reasons I never understood. Like you, I have no children, but 3 stepchildren (I helped raise the 2 boys from 9, 12 to college) who are all grown now. I consider them family, yet there is still that void at get togethers because everyone is talking about who the grandbabies take after and of course I'm not real family so I become sensitive to things said. (You may have noticed on my Babcock Park post I didn't write much detail about the "family" part). <BR/><BR/>This is my 2nd marriage. My first husband didn't like kids so I was afraid to have them. I'm turning 46 so having any now is out of the question. I don't know if this happens to you, but sometimes other women tend to skip over me when they find out I had no kids, even if the conversation has nothing to do with kids. You are right, people can be very insensitive about things. I was lucky to have in-laws this time around that were wonderful and thoughtful people, like you describe your elderly friends here. Although they've both passed on, my adjustment to "stepmothership" (sounds kind of spacey, lol) was much easier due to them because they didn't compare me to the real mother like so many did the first few years. <BR/><BR/>Bless you for sharing and I hope you are feeling much better! You have us blogger friends here who really care too. It's surprising how much we have shared in such a short time. Your poem really "speaks" from your heart to mine and probably many others. Be well my friend :)Carolynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08124375366809037969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129227591564704572005-10-13T11:19:00.000-07:002005-10-13T11:19:00.000-07:00I'VE GOT TEARS OF THANKFULNESS AND LOVE FLOWING DO...I'VE GOT TEARS OF THANKFULNESS AND LOVE FLOWING DOWN MY CHEEKS.. I FEEL CLOSER TO YOU NOW THAN EVER AND YOUR WISHES AND PRAYERS FOR MY COUSIN AND I REUNION AFTER 45 YEARS.. IT WAS A MIRICLE.SHE NEEDS FAMILY AND SO DO I . I HAVE AN ADOPTED DAD AS MINE IS LIKE YOUR FAMILY.. YOU DESCRIBE ALOT OF THE ABUSE I ENDURED AND NEVER WAS I ALLOWED TO BE A CHILD CAREFREE.. LITTLE ADULT WITH ADULT SICK PROBLEMS IN THE HOLLYWOOD INDUSTRY. I HAVE JESUS CHRIST TO THANK FOR MY SURVIVAL AND WHO I AM NOW ..NOT PERFECT BUT I AM ABLE TO ACT SILY GOOFY AND BE A KIS AGAIN SAFE IN MY FATHERS ARMS AND CARE.. I'VE BEEN BLESSED BY MY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP (NOT RELIGION) WITH JESUS.. GOD IS GOOD..AND WE ARE ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU ALWAYS.. I KNOW WHEN IT IS THE RIGHT TIME AND $$$ IS SAVED WE WILL GET YOU UP HERE FOR A VISIT AND YOU WILL FIT IN VERY WELL.. KNOW YOUR LOVED..won tonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15230691137795860139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129199947379301412005-10-13T03:39:00.000-07:002005-10-13T03:39:00.000-07:00this is my very first time to visit your blog...I ...this is my very first time to visit your blog...I wonder how you were able to visit mine...and i'd like to thank you for leaving you link. Do you remember your comment in my http://lovenotesblog.blogspot.com/2005/09/thoughts-from-alley-mcbeal.html<BR/><BR/>About your post, im only 24 and just like you I'm independent."I'm so used to being on my own all the time"...it's not my choice, i just have to, because i have nobody hough i have lots of friends, well, i pressume you know what i mean...<BR/><BR/>I got to add this on my fave blog list!Mitchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17316974749411126120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129172064976867722005-10-12T19:54:00.000-07:002005-10-12T19:54:00.000-07:00Thanks Jip. It was a pretty nice time had by "all"...Thanks Jip. It was a pretty nice time had by "all". Wish there were more good times like today!<BR/><BR/>Blessings,<BR/>RhiannonRhiannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04533771985725095499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14789760.post-1129112197669879622005-10-12T03:16:00.000-07:002005-10-12T03:16:00.000-07:00Enjoy visiting with your special friends..maybe a ...Enjoy visiting with your special friends..maybe a well timed pick-you-up for all concerned..jipzeecabhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16539854067163084799noreply@blogger.com